Because parenting a cute little girl isn't always easy, I thought I'd tell you about our first public meltdown.
It happened yesterday, but perhaps our major parenting mistake occurred weeks ago, when we introduced Teagan to the shopping cart with the toddler car. You know the one.
This is an exact image of the one at our local grocery store. To say that Teagan loves riding in this while we shop is a complete understatement. We initially thought that her excitement was cute, but the trauma from yesterday has pretty much solidified the fact that Sean and I will aggressively avoid eye contact with this cart from now on.
Everything was going as peacefully as possible, meaning that Teagan was only slightly screaming the words "a mi, a mi" ("to me, to me") as we put her favorite foods into our basket. It was 5:15PM after all, and dinner time was fast approaching.
And then, we got to the parking garage....
When I asked Teagan to get out of the car because it was time to go home, she lost it. LOST. IT.
As I pulled her out one limb at a time, I had to pry her little hands from the roof of the car. She was holding on for dear life. No way did she want to give up that horn, that buckle, that view.
And then, people started to stare.
As I tried to put her in the car seat, her screams got even louder and her body, even more wiggly. It took what felt like a good 5 minutes to get her strapped in. There may have even been some bribing going on. You get in, I give you a cup of Cheerios. You know, that kind of thing.
After I got myself buckled in, I decided to do what any compassionate mom would do: I took a picture to remember this monumental moment. This is what losing the toy-love of your life looks like, folks:
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| In the parking garage, just after I finally got her in the car seat. |
After debriefing with some friends at work today, I realized my fatal parenting mistake. I didn't give Teagan any warning that she was going to have to exit the vehicle! Instead of talking to her throughout our shop, letting her know that this was only a temporary gig, I abruptly tried to separate her from this joyous occasion. Communication is key, I guess, no matter how old you are! (Lesson learned.)
As we drove home, she started to calm down and I tried to distract her from being so sad. Although she didn't seem too interested at first, she played along. Here's how the story ends:
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Update*
Just to show you how completely obsessed Teags is with this car/cart thing, when she saw me blogging, she ran over and insisted on sitting with me so that she could look at the picture above. Ha!